Say Less, Act More

I am currently reading " The Compound Effect" by Darren Hardy and you guys it has literally shook me to my core. I gave myself the small, yet attainable goal of reading one chapter a day, and every single chapter has shifted my mindset and stirred something inside me.  The first chapter is all about what the compound effect is. To summarize for you, it's the combined use of effort and energy into a task ( along with some patience) and watching all of the positive effects come to life from it. For example, if you invest 50 dollars each month for a year, you aren't going to see extreme results, but you invest that 50 dollars each month for 5 years plus interest you will most likely be a millionaire. COMPOUNDING.  Anyways, the second chapter is all about taking responsibility. We all believe that in any relationship it should be 50/50. Now, don't hate me, but that's wrong. You are always and will be 100% responsible. Didn't make it to work on time because the

 Do you find yourself looking at people and time as an inconvenience? You catch yourself saying, " oh I only have short amount of time." or ," I should hangout with this person but I don't have the time." People and time are everywhere and it is up to you to decide what you do with that information. No endless amount of time or vast collection of people in your life will ever truly be beneficial to you until you start looking at them as opportunities.  The average day for a person looks like waking up and starting their day by listing all the things they are not looking forward to that day. Whether its a meeting, a job or a prior commitment, they wake up and are immediately invalidating all of the endless information they can receive in their day, that can be positive for them and their journey.  For example, have you been ever stuck in the morning traffic? How do you react? Do you get frustrated, drop a couple f bombs because you're going to be late for wor